Are we the guys that we speak of in our meet-up-gone-wrong stories or the ones hailed as the cool guys?

Wow! Now hear is a article to make you “pause and go hmmmmm.” Men have been accused of having double standards as fare a woman, it would do us good to look at our self and see if we hold double standards for each other. I think the title of this article really gets the point home. Who do we want to be as we explore new ways in which we can be men in relationship with other men?