For adults in committed relationships, the secret use of pornography or cybersex is far more complicated, as it can ultimately impact both partners and pose a risk to their relationship.
This article makes a good point that often the real issues is not the sexual behavior but the emotional charge that our society has around sex may make it harder for couples to get to the real issues.
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